Caitlyn Jenner May Date A Guy But She's Got 'No Appetite For Sex' Right Now
People – Caitlyn Jenner reveals in her upcoming memoir that she may never be intimate with women again — but she may be open to a male companion.
“I don’t have the appetite for [sex], which is why the public’s obsession over whether I would [get gender confirmation surgery] is annoying to me,” writes the 67-year-old TV personality in The Secrets of My Life, which is exclusively excerpted by PEOPLE and will be released later this month. “It hearkens back to this misperception that people transition because of their sexual desires.”
“A future female companion? I think about that. A future female sexual companion? Not happening, at least for now, and perhaps not ever,” she wrote in a section of the book completed prior to her gender confirmation surgery. “A future male sexual companion? I have never had the inclination. But maybe that attitude might possibly change if I have the Final Surgery.”
So I guess there are two main takeaways here: 1) Somewhere between the book being written and excerpts leaking, Caitlyn Jenner did get the “Final Surgery” to give her functional ladybits and 2) Despite all the magazine covers and garish outfits and fancy makeovers, Caitlyn Jenner still doesn’t fully know what it’s like to be a woman who’s interested in men. Here’s a quote she gave PEOPLE talking about getting the gender reassignment surgery:
“Transitioning is about nothing else but your soul,” she tells PEOPLE. “You are no more a woman the day after [the surgery] than the day before, okay?”
And sure, inside she’s always been the woman her outside now reflects. But I would argue you’re not truly living the full experience as a woman getting the full “Filet my penis into a vagina and let’s go to town” treatment until you get that first dick all up in there. I’m sure Caitlyn Jenner was satisfied with her femininity after the original surgeries and transitioning…but getting that new vagina and not getting a dick in there is like spending years waiting to get a Ferrari and not even taking it out of the garage. How much of womanhood is tied up in sex with men? Sarah Jessica Parker is a multimillionaire and not currently being turned into glue because she weaponized women’s love of dick as an expression of womanhood in a TV show for a decade. You go to brunch next to a table of ladies and you know what they’re talking about? Sex. It’s part of what it means to be a woman in 2017. “No appetite for it”? Fuck that. You’ve come this far, you owe it to yourself to cross the finish line. Little dicks, big dicks, Asian dicks, black dicks, dicks dressed like Mr Peanut, whatever kind of dick you can conjure up in your imagination deserves a stopover on Caitlyn Jenner’s journey of self-exploration. No half measures, no half-inchers.
Aside: Kendall Jenner seems to have blacked out the last two years of her life